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Online Dating in Swansea - Safe Dating Advice

1. Meet in a public place that is familiar to you.

2. Never allow your date to pick you up from your home.

3. Don't allow your date to make arrangements for your travel or hotel accommodation.

4. Always have a friend to call on if you need help. Always let them know where you're going and what time you expected to be back. Call them to let them know you are all right and happy. Leave details of the person you are going to meet.

5. Consider going on a double date with some of your friends, or going as part of a group of people you both know. Not only a safe option, but this also gives you an insight into what kind of life your date currently leads.

6. Remember, when you meet someone for the first time (even though you have chatted to them online) they are still a stranger.

7. Don’t accept a lift home if you feel uncomfortable about it, particularly on the first date.

8. Always have a contingency plan for the unexpected so you can get away quickly, and have someone close by you can call on.

9. Take a mobile phone with you – make sure it is fully charged, working and has enough credit to make calls.

10. It can take time to get to know someone properly. A person who is truly interested in you won’t mind if you want to take your time in a relationship.

11. Impostors and liars can be found anywhere, Online dating sites are no different. Dating in Swansea's members have all been verified as much as we are able refusing membership to anyone we are not happy with. However we are obviously unable to be 100% certain, so taking the simple dating precautions shown here, will give you far greater peace of mind. Clearly we are unable to guarantee your safety.

12. Always use your common sense, keep in control and don’t be forced into doing something you wouldn’t normally do.

13. And don't forget - Whatever your reasons for joining Dating in Swansea, whether it be to find love or new friends - The main thing to remember is to have some FUN!!!

Speed Dating in Swansea tips

1. When going speed dating, dress in something that you feel comfortable in.

2. Each mini date last for 3 - 5 minutes, which can be a long time if you've run out of things to say. It's a good idea to have a few questions up your sleeve in case you dry up. However don't have a prepared list of questions as it murders the spontaneity of your short date.

3. Don't drink too much. Everyone knows that a couple of drinks make you feel relaxed, the problem is one to many drinks and what you may think sounds cool will sound more like a drunken slur to your date. Few people fancy a Drunk.

4. Food - Be careful what you eat 24 hours before the event. A great Curry is all very nice if your both eating it together, however be advised that most of your short Dates will not appreciate being blown off their seats by your Curry breath.

5, Do not ask for anyone's number or personal details, If they don't and you ask, then it will be embarrassing for you both. If they want to see you again you'll find out from us as you leave the event. Stick to the rules and not only will you have a less stressful evening, but your subsequent dating will be conducted in more relaxed and safe manner. See above for safe Dating tips. 

6. Do not tell lies - Next time you meet that person it's going to be difficult to explain why a NASA Astronaut lives in a 3 Bedroom Semi or how a Top Fashion Model drives around in a 10 year old Ford.

7. Be yourself - You like genuine honest people right! Well so does everyone else. If a Dating in Swansea dater wants to see you again and you have been 100% genuine with them on the first mini date then the chance of a successful relationship/friendship developing are greatly enhanced.

8. Do not use excessive swearing. The typical type of person that joins Dating in Swansea is not the type who will appreciate this. Most of us, men and women alike will find this offensive.

9. Warning - Anyone found conducting themselves in a manner which Dating in Swansea consider to be offensive towards any of our Daters will be warned about their conduct and may  have their membership revoked. Our site is properly monitored by our staff. The pleasure and safety of our Daters is our primary concern.

Please note. Dating in Swansea does not currently hold speed dating events. However we hope you'll find the advice given above very helpful in any dating situation. If we plan to hold speed dating events in Swansea we will notify you of this online or by messaging your inbox. Have fun and be safe.